Online dating should be taken seriously

Daisee Mae Abad, DVC student

Should I swipe left or right? Should I slide into their DMs?

On social media, it’s normal for the average person to want to pursue a relationship through the digital world. Apps like SnapChat and Tinder have become the gateway for online dating.

According to Bustle, an online lifestyle blog, online dating is the second most popular way to meet someone new. Online dating can be a fun and convenient way to find someone. When feelings spark and butterflies flutter, many couples choose to further their relationship outside of the social media world and it can only go North or South from there.

It’s important to do your homework on someone before actually risking it and meeting them in person. Usually, this is done by browsing and stalking their social media profiles until you’re confident they’re not an ax murderer. Otherwise, you could lead to mis-identity, which is often known as “catfishing.” Being catfished is not fun when you actually thought there was potential.

Referencing Pew Research Center, online dating has increased in adults under the age of 25 and adults in their late 50s and 60s. With technology taking over, the process of online dating is completely normal. From those surveyed on Bustle, 22% have actually confessed to meeting their partner online. Don’t be ashamed from your experience, embrace it.

The digital world can surprise you. When you finally meet the one, you can thank Instagram or Tinder, because without the internet — would you ever know if he/she was standing right next to you?